I know (from experience) that it is only the human nature to want to hurry and bandaid up the pain you are going through; whether it be with another beau to distract you or maybe experience an antidote, but I can assure you that when that’s all done and said, your still left with the previous emotions and speculations + a new one.
It’s okay to be alone and be single or go through changes that have nothing to do with either of those, but you need to PROCESS & RELEASE. Process & Release.
What do you guys do to practice this? I usually pray, write and then I say my good riddances at the beach and make a pact to improve and be better from the situation that caused pain.